Today's Book #12 "If others seem happy, go eat a gyudon at Matsuya late at night"

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今日の一冊#12「他人が幸せに見えたら深夜の松屋で牛丼を食え」

This 12th installment of the "Book of the Day" series, featuring books selected by WAITER-U, introduces "If Others Seem Happy, Go Eat a Gyudon at Matsuya Late at Night" from Tetsujin Bunko.


This book is exactly what its title suggests. It compiles advice from "ossan" (middle-aged men) who are life seniors at bars in Tokyo and Osaka, answering the question: "What advice would you give your younger self?"


When it comes to giving advice to younger generations, it tends to be the proud voices of celebrities or those who have achieved great things. However, this is a wonderful book that compiles the honest, heartfelt voices of people who have worked diligently. It's full of passages that provide a refreshing perspective on life, which seems both short and long.


One such piece of advice is found in the title: "If Others Seem Happy, Go Eat a Gyudon at Matsuya Late at Night."


Originally, this was a feature in Uramono Japan, a fascinating magazine that investigates the hidden side of society.


After discovering this book on X (formerly Twitter), I immediately bought it, then learned about Uramono Japan and started reading it on Kindle Unlimited. It's quite interesting.


Here are a few quotes from the book that resonated with me:


"Start fast, act slow."

"To be liked by influential people, know the work that got them to where they are."

"Women aren't asking for your opinion."

"A life where you spend an hour for 10 minutes of joy creates a sense of fulfillment."

"Men, express your joy exuberantly."

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